From our buddies to the movies we watch - That women like the bad guys more than the good guys.

“The good guys are the suckers, the schmucks, and the losers!”

So, is it true?

And like all issues that I discuss that pertain to dating and love, I must give you the truth.

And the truth is, that “Yes”, women like the bad guys more than the good guys… (For certain women at certain stages in their life…)

The ultimate truth is that it depends.

You see, from most long-term relationships and marriages I see out there, I didn’t witness some girl staying with a guy who likes to write graffiti all over the wall, imprint donut marks all over the street with his Harley, chug a six-pack of “Bud” in 3 minutes, going to the club every night of the week, and lives in a house with trash all over the house.

And nowadays, men with tattoos, piercings all over their body, or driving old school muscle cars are not necessarily bad boys because many of them can be sweet ol’ gentleman...

So, whatever image that pops-up in your mind when you think of a “bad boy”- Do they have an advantage with getting with more women?

And the real answer is, “It depends which women they are exposed to, and what stage the women are in their life.”

Back in high school, I did see how women were drawn to the care-free and “dangerous” man out there.

So, here’s the truth.

Yes, there are some women who are drawn to the “bad boy” image more than the good guy. But, at what stage in their life?

Because from what I have observed, 100% of the women I’ve met, whether they were into drugs and alcohol, macking out or having casual sex, clubbin or hanging out at bars all the time, eventually understood that their life had to settle down because they found out there are more important things in life. Such as having children, obtaining a comfortable lifestyle, traveling to fun places, having a good circle of friends, staying healthy, and finding a man they can grow old with.

Notice all that I stated above, had nothing to do with being a bad boy or possessing the bad boy image.

Many times, for all those men or women who carried on with the “rock-star” lifestyle had to change because maintaining that lifestyle puts a lot of stress onto a person’s health. And those who continue those ways for the majority of their life- they became old looking, wrinkled, and broke.

My conclusion is that if you are young and not a “bad boy” and never will be- Well, maybe you are truly mature and just haven’t crossed the right woman who is just as subtle as you and wants a man who has your exact profile.

Or maybe your a good guy who would find inner happiness by becoming more of a daredevil in which living a little more on the edge might be a change you would like to implement into your life.

The point is, whomever you are, and proud to be, there is a perfect woman for you. You just haven’t crossed her yet or did the works that will assist in meeting that woman.

Regardless, you should never feel that you are a loser for not being “a bad guy”. 

Nor should you feel that there is a scarcity of women who would adore someone of your type. There’s plenty of women out there….

Not all women like “bad guys”. And in fact, those who settle down and maintain a long-relationship end up with someone who has always been a good guy, has settled down into a good guy, or has become a hybrid of good and bad.

Don’t be distracted by bad advice or images we see in T.V. and movies.

To you,

Alex Madrid